There is such a thing as a bad question.
On Reddit’s fitness forum, people share stories, trade tips, and ask questions on a shared quest to improve their health and sculpt their bodies. The site is a treasure for the motivated, curious beginner.
You also encounter questions like, “Is it okay to eat a grapefruit before my workout or should I wait until after?”
Bad question. Good person, but bad question.
This is a bad question because it is fear disguised as curiosity. Learning a little more, reading another book or blog post can feel like progress, but it is also a common stalling tactic. Same with asking for advice. The wisdom of experts can help us avoid painful, time-consuming mistakes.
But this question is about grapefruit timing.
I want to grab this person and yell, “JUST TRY IT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS!”
Yesterday, I talked about passive curiosity, which asks, “What do people already know about this subject?”
Active curiosity wonders, “Let’s see what happens when I try this.”
The curiosity of taking apart a camera to see if you can put it back together.
The curiosity of introducing yourself to a group of strangers to see how they react.
The curiosity of taking the long way everybody avoids rather than the short cut everybody seeks.
The curiosity of failing forward.
The curiosity of taking the first bite.
The curiosity of saying yes.
When a person specializes in passive curiosity, we call her well-read. When she dedicates herself to active curiosity, we call her well-lived.
The well-read person is sometimes interesting, and often dangerous. The well-lived person is always interesting, and often heroic.
It is the difference between timing a grapefruit and starting a movement.